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Steve and Jose
NEPAL 2011
August 17 - Sept. 2, 2011
Steve & Jose: Asia 2011: INDIA - SINGAPORE - NEPAL
Nepal Log of Events
August 17 - September 1
Note:  "Happenings" in BOLD indicate Other Sheep meetings and appointments or general contacts
Day in
Nepal
Date
Day and Place
Happenings

Day 1
in
Nepal

Aug 17

Wednesday

Connecting flight
in New Delhi, India
(coming from
Singapore) to
KATMANDU

KATMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL

  • On our connecting flight from New Delhi to Nepal, Steve
    visits with a Nepali Masters in Business grad (just
    graduated and returning home) from a university in London,
    England, who is sitting next to Steve.  Steve shows him the
    Other Sheep web  pages of Nepal 2009 from his computer;
    he gives us his name and mobile number if we need help
    while in Nepal
  • Arrive at the Nepal airport around 8:15AM
  • Obtain sim card in airport
  • Obtain hotel information in airport
  • Arrange for possible pick-up at Gokarna Forest
    Resort for trip to Kathmandu (with Hotel Encounter)
  • By taxi Steve and Jose go directly to Gokarna Forest Resort
    (close to airport, vs. going later from Kathmandu) to
    address in person, with the manager, a $944.79 (USD) mis-
    charge to our credit card one year after our 2009 vacation
    time there; a dispute that our credit card has attempted to
    resolve since April 2011 without any response from the
    resort or the resort's bank .
  • Lunch at Gokarna Forest Resort
  • By taxi (covered for by Hotel Encounter Nepal) to Hotel
    Encounter Nepal in Thamel, Kathmandu; get a room for one
    night
  • Spend afternoon and evening, on foot, checking out hotels
    in the area (we look at about ten different hotels in Thamel,
    a popular area of Kathmandu for both tourists and Nepalis)
    along the road Thamel Marg from Galkopakha to a bit south
    of Narshing Chowk (intersection)
  • Jose slept some late afternoon while Steve got on the
    Internet in their Hotel Encounter Nepal room
  • Late night dinner at the restaurant at Hotel Encounter;
    manager of hotel engages us in a conversation around
    American politics; we retire to bed around 10:00PM,
    exhausted from our all night flight from Singapore and
    working all day
Day 2
in
Nepal.
Aug 18
Thursday

KATHMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Steve gets up around 6:00AM (but looking at Singapore
    time, he thought it was around 8:00AM; he wakes Jose
    saying it is late, around 8:30AM (Singapore time) and
    insists they get started --  poor Jose who is not a morning
    person, but "seeing" it was already "8:30" (Singapore time,
    not Nepal time) gets up without a fuss; albeit it was around
    6:30!!)
  • Without coffee or breakfast, on foot, we return to
    Kathmandu HI Thamel Hostel (which we saw last night) to
    see the room again (but still not satisfied with bathroom)
    and ask the hotel to hold it; look at some other hotels (one
    by rickshaw); return to Hotel Encounter Nepal; order
    breakfast; phone Kathmandu HI Thamel Hostel and ask
    about other rooms there - they are able to give us a front
    room with a bathroom matching our specifications - (we are
    sooo happy!); have breakfast; Steve packs; Jose takes
    care of hotel bill at Hotel Encounter Nepal; all public
    transportation including taxis is on strike today; Hotel
    Encounter Nepal finds a car and driver for us
  • At Kathmandu HI Thamel Hostel (situated in a clean,
    attractive court area with two other attractive, clean hotels;
    three restaurants are in the court area; the setting is
    flawless; the room is only $12 USD per night; they clean the
    room to our specifications and provide an extra desk for
    Jose - a perfect set-up for our two weeks in Nepal; our
    searching is well rewarded)
  • Spend the day setting up, getting situated, follow-up with
    Gokarna Forest Resort almost $1000 USA dispute, meeting
    with Blue Diamond Society member; contact Translators
    and Indira Ghale
  • Steve writes a letter that summarizes the
    unsatisfactory outcome of our meeting with the
    manager of Gokarna Forest Resort; shops for
    envelops; purchases maps; HI Hostel front desk
    person agrees to deliver letter to Gokarna Forest
    Resort manager (dispute over almost $1,000 USD
    incorrect charge to our credit card
  • Steve goes to shops and purchases maps and three
    envelopes (asks about finding a post office);
    arranges delivery of letter to Gokarna Forest Resort
  • Jose contacts Nepal Translators by email, and Indira
    Ghale, and Umesh P by phone
  • At 6:30PM we meet with Umesh P of Blue
    Diamond Society and discuss, over diner, sites we
    can deliver our Nepali translation of "our" story - the
    "ex-gay" paper
  • After dark, Umesh P takes us, on foot, to Dhaktapur
    Dubar Square (World Heritage Site)
  • On return walk to hotel (streets very dark from lack of
    electricity, and very deserted), at our hotel area we visit an
    establishment where girls are available (dance on stage,
    others come and sit with you)
Day 3
in
Nepal
Aug 19
Friday

KATHMANDU:  
Staying THAMEL
  • Breakfast with Indira Ghale, Other Sheep
    Coordinator, here at our HI Hostel, court area restaurant;
    discuss and make plans to reach gay Christian contacts
    who are already in contact with Indira, to meet with LGBT
    leaders who might support the idea of a gay Christian
    fellowship, to work towards forming a gay Christian
    fellowship that is in Kathmandu and in a second (unnamed)
    area of Nepal,  this is what  our two weeks in Nepal
  • Work in room; Steve phones manager at Gokarna Forest
    Resort twice after emailing copy of hard letter; Jose checks
    credit card site and finds the amount in dispute has been
    charged to our credit card
  • Steve contacts translators; translation work to be done by
    today
  • Steve and Jose lunch at "only revolving restaurant" in Nepal
    at end of New Road street; text a few 2009 area pastors
  • Steve and Jose at New Road shopping area, shop for and
    purchase mobile-camera for Jose (to replace the one lost in
    Goa, India)
  • Steve and Jose, for a second time, tour World Heritage Site
    (while still light out), adjacent to shopping area, called
    Dhaktapur Dubar Square; meet and speak with several
    people (general public) as we tour, introducing ourselves as
    "husband and husband" and getting different initial
    responses
  • By chance, returning to hotel, meet a gay-friendly
    individual (a young Hindu man, college educated, working
    a professional career) whom Jose met the night before; he
    invites us to his "flat" and we go:  meet his roommate,
    have tea, view their photo albums, - a cultural experience
  • Return to our hotel; Jose gets sim card for phone in Internet
    shop in our court area
  • Translation work (of "ex-gay" paper) is sent around midnight
Day 4
in
Nepal
Aug 20
Saturday

KATHMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Steve up at 5:45 and Jose up at 7:50
  • Steve on computer doing logs; getting letter to Gokarna
    Forest Resort to delivery person; Steve creates release
    form for video recording individuals; Jose makes copies of
    the form
  • Breakfast at Peace Garden (in our hotel court area); Steve
    video records first interview with a Nepali young man
    on his response to "husband and husband"
  • Steve records second video interview, a young
    woman; Jose goes to get passport photo of himself to finish
    mobile phone registration;
  • Some Other Sheep work on laptops in our hotel room
  • To Roof Top Restaurant in the Bhaktapur Durbar Square
    (taking parallel streets; different sites); contact translator
    and Indira by text; return to hotel to open,download and
    print translation work for Indira
  • On return walk to hotel, video record third individual on
    "husband and husband" response while two other friends
    look on
  • At Internet shop in our hotel court area, Steve and Jose
    attempt, and fail, to print a hard copy of translation work;
    manager (and owner), who was atypically close by, helped
    us; he downloaded a new program from the Internet to his
    computer; opened and printed document
  • We text Indira and translators that we now have our first
    hard copy of the "ex-gay" paper; Steve takes his lab top to
    Internet manager (and owner) and asks him to download
    same program to his laptop which he does
  • At around 5:30 or 6:00 PM, meet with Indira briefly at
    our hotel to give her a copy of the translation work;
    she informs us that plans have been made to travel to
    contacts outside of Kathmandu (name of town withheld) will
    happen on Thursday
  • Steve and Jose order coffee from Peace Garden
    Restaurant (in our court area), delivered to our room; Jose
    downloads his pictures from his camera and is totally
    disappointed;
  • Steve and Jose spend the remainder of the evening out
  • Go to map store where Steve purchased maps and
    envelopes to speak with attendent/overseer who was
    very helpful earlier and he recommends copier shop
    and where to rent a scooter
  • Go to copier who says return after 9:00PM when
    electricity outage will be over
  • Find rent-a-bike shop close by; closed but next door
    merchant helps us with contact info (on sign) and
    hours of operation
  • This street is "posh" compared to our street; visit
    restaurants (very classy); by chance, meet Nebash
    who helped us in 2009 by getting us around in
    Kathmandu, at an oven baked pizza restaurant; we
    have pizza at this "posh" pizza restaurant
  • Before,or just after, placing our order, Jose contacts
    by phone a key contact (that Indira gave us) and
    arranges to meet on Monday or Tuesday with contact
    and Indira
  • After ordering our pizza, Jose speaks with a couple
    waiters about us being "husband and husband" while
    another waiter takes Steve to a near-by shop to
    purchase pens (by the time Steve returns, the
    restaurant is a-buzz with the "husband and husband"
    story and Jose is still interacting with waiters at the
    coffee counter)
  • Steve video records two waiters on their
    "husband and husband" response at restaurant
  • Steve and Jose make seven copies of the "ex-gay"
    paper in Nepali at the copy place they visited earlier
  • Steve and Jose visit a second girl-bar briefly
  • Return to hotel room after 10:00PM (when the gate is
    locked)
  • At hotel room before retiring
  • Jose contacts his family by Skype
  • Steve sleeps a couple hours (Jose had napped
    earlier in the day)
  • From mid-night to 2/3:00AM in the morning, Steve
    and Jose on the Internet (in their room) making a
    contact list of Christian pastors from 2009 lists; and
    search Internet for related information (our trip on
    Thursday, connecting towns)
  • Jose retires at 2:00AM and sleeps; Steve creates an
    eNews that he sends to over 100 Nepali contacts
    (previous contacts listed with his Constant Contact
    server); eNews invites Christians to receive a copy of
    the Nepali translation on "ex-gay;" gives contact info
    of Indira, Jose and Steve
  • Steve retires at 3:00AM after sending out eNews to
    Nepali contacts
Day 5
in
Nepal
Aug 21
Sunday

KATHMANDU:  
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Steve is up at 7:00AM; Jose is up at 9:00AM; Steve enters
    log items
  • Breakfast at restaurant in court area; Indira texts while at
    breakfast that the translation is "excellent;" Steve and Jose
    print out contact sheets with pastors info - word documents
    Jose made from the Internet; Steve assembles last nights
    "ex-gay" paper (only seven copies); text and email
    translators to add page numbering and title of paper at
    bottom of each page;
  • Go to "mall" area in Thamel - Kaldi Café and The Factory
    area; lunch; text Indira about meeting hall
  • Return to room at 2:00PM; final "ex-gay" document with
    numbering, etc., arrives by email;
  • Steve creates and publishes two web pages; naps for 30
    minutes in between; Jose works on organizing contact info
  • The gay-friendly Hindu of Friday night visits at our
    hotel; we share a meal with him and visit
  • Umesh P takes us to a birthday party held in a Nepali
    home of a famous performer (Hindu) here in Nepal; Umesh
    P. has been a friend of the family for some time; Umesh P.
    performs in drag before all the guests
  • Steve and Jose, who have introduced themselves as
    "husband and husband" autograph three copies of
    Steve's paper on "ex-gay" and give a copy to the
    birthday person, and two famous Nepali performers
  • A Christian young man in his twenties at the
    party shows considerable interest as a Christian who
    is questioning "this issue" in Steve and Jose and
    Steve gives him a copy of the "ex-gay" paper in Nepali
  • Umesh P. walks Steve and Jose home (last part by car with
    a friend Umesh P. meets; walking at night around 11:30PM:
  • Umesh P. meets two women sex workers walking and
    Steve and Jose give them each a little money for food
  • Umesh P. meets introduces us to a group of about 10
    cross-dressers and/or transgender sex workers all in
    a group on a major street corner; police appear and
    the sex workers immediately run
  • Umesh P. sees a friend with a car who drives the
    remainder short distance to our hotel
  • Steve and Jose retire just after mid-night
Day 6
in
Nepal
Aug 22
Monday

KATHMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Steve is up at 6:00AM; completes yesterday's log entry
    downloads pictures, etc; Jose up around 8:00AM.  To
    breakfast; Jose makes appointment with BDS for Tuesday;
    Indira sends names of possible meeting places for next
    week's public meeting with Christians
  • Steve answers email; replies directly to Gokarna Forest
    Resort's unsatisfactory, side-stepping email letter in which
    the manager fails to show any apology or responsibility for
    the almost $1000.00 his bank failed to credit our account
    until we insisted with our personal visit to his resort
  • Steve and Jose go to camera shop (on the way to meet
    Umesh P.) and request an exchange of camera; exchange
    is granted (Jose is extremely happy; we note the stark
    difference between the local camera shop and the five star
    resort of Gokarna Forest Resort)
  • Steve and Jose meet up with Umesh P.; together to lunch
    and then (after Steve naps for 10 minutes in chair in
    restaurant) look at two places for next week's public
    meeting; decide on second place - select date and time, a
    la cart lunch
  • Umesh returns to Steve and Jose's  hotel room (by taxi) to
    download Steve's pictures onto his flash drive
  • Umesh and Jose return to camera shop where Jose
    exchanges his purchase of a camera (for a camera he
    knows and loves - his old make and model exactly)
  • Meanwhile, Steve creates eNews to Nepali Christians with
    info on next week's public meeting; Steve creates flier on
    meeting
  • Steve and Jose have diner out at "posh" area
  • Return to hotel and retire around 10:00PM
Day 7
in
Nepal
Aug 23
Tuesday

KATHMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Steve is up around 7:00AM and Jose around 7:20AM
  • Steve makes a print-out of "ex-gay" paper at Internet shop
    while Jose orders breakfast
  • Steve and Jose to Blue Diamond Society offices where
    they meet with Indira and BDS officers and discuss public
    meeting; news paper article; "ex-gay" paper in Nepali
  • Steve and Jose and Indira at BDS offices make plans for
    trip out of Kathmandu
  • Steve and Jose to hotel; to Roadhouse restaurant for pizza;
    text pastors about meeting
  • Steve and Jose to  ATM, store, and rent-a-bike for
    information; to hotel - arrive around 2:45PM - continue work
    on contacting pastors and churches
  • Steve spends evening contacting area pastors and
    churches by email
  • Steve sends out flier announcing next week's open
    meeting to pastors and area churches
  • (Area pastor phones Steve and asks who is the
    Nepali contact person; pastor phones Nepali contact
    person and threatens to call contact person's pastor
    to start church discipline - expulsion from church;
    Steve phones area pastor and talks with him about
    his phone call to contact person)
  • Steve sends out, in Nepali, excerpt on "ex-gay" paper
    with link to full paper to area pastors and churches
  • Steve writes blog on "Ostracism in Nepal" and sends
    out blog to area churches and pastors
  • Steve retires to bed around 3:00AM
Day 8
in
Nepal
Aug 24
Wednesday

KATHMANDU:
Staying in
THAMEL
  • Individual whom Jose contacted from Couch Surfer calls
    and asks to meet at 10:00 AM; Steve and Jose agree; same
    person calls and asks to meet at 11:00 AM - running late;
    Steve and Jose go to breakfast and meet individual: he
    has an orphanage and is looking for funding; travel agent is
    next door to where we meet and is introduced as friend and
    Christian who helps with orphanage;
  • Travel agent/Christian tells us that New Life Church has
    married same-sex couples, one man and man in 2009;
    phones pastor and offers to take us there; pastor free at 1:
    30; meanwhile, we make purchases for tickets for travel
    outside of Kathmandu for ourselves and for Nepali Other
    Sheep Coordinator[ at New Life Church with travel agent
    and Couch Surfer in meeting with the pastor, the pastor
    tells that New Life Church has never married a same-sex
    couple, that New Life Church is Assembly of God and
    against same-sex marriage;
  • Steve and Jose set out to return to Thamel on foot and
    immediately meet Umesh P. of Blue Diamond Society
    who goes with us to a very late lunch;
  • Steve and Jose go to travel agent around 5:00 PM to get
    tickets which were purchased earlier in the day
  • In the evening at the hotel, a pastor whom Steve met on
    Facebook following the 2009 trip to Nepal, meet with
    Steve and Jose at the restaurant at hotel; Steve had
    sent him a flier and phoned him day or two before - was
    very interested and very affirming and welcoming of LGBT
    people
  • At the hotel, Steve meets with Nepal Translation
    Services and pays in cash the balance due for having
    translated the "ex-gay" paper into Nepali
  • Steve naps some in the evening, then around mid-night
    Steve writes article for report associated with Blue Diamond
    Society; Steve emails article to reporter, then retires
Day 9
in
Nepal
Aug 25
Thursday

From
KATHMANDU
to
SAURAHA,
CHITWAN
  • Steve and Jose up around 15 min. to six; hurry and pack all
    belongings to leave with hotel in storage; to travel agent; to
    bus stand; get 6:30 am bus to Sauraha, Chitwan; over
    mountains, and more mountains and more mountains;
    along river; finally a plain
  • French speaking Nepali transports us from bus stand to
    Chitwan Riverside Resort Hotel, Sauraha, where we room
  • Spent rest of day on hotel compound; Jose realizes it is our
    3rd wedding anniversary; celebrate on balcony at room with
    candlelight and beer and fries
Day
10
in
Nepal
Aug 26
Friday

From
SAURAHA
to
NARAYANGHAT
to
SAURAHA
  • Steve up early and goes on walk along the riverside;
  • Steve and Jose go on morning canoe trip down river with
    guide and a couple (straight) from the Netherlands; walk
    back through "jungle" with guide and Dutch couple; sight
    some birds and deer, one crocodile (guide only saw it), see
    Annapurna mountain range from canoe
  • Afternoon, to go to Narayanghat; Steve attempts riding a
    motorcycle; finally rent a car and driver from French
    speaking Nepali (kept his number) - round trip to
    Narayanghat to be with Indira and activists
  • Meet with Indira and activists on street corner where
    a human rights celebration is taking place; Steve and Jose
    are given seats of honor; activist director - our key contact
    person here - is glad to see us;
  • Go to activist office, with activists, where we receive a
    special welcome and gifts; Steve introduces the "ex-gay"
    paper in Nepali as a tool for reaching the Christian
    community;  seven gay Christians identify themselves within
    a group of about 15 or more;
  • Steve and Jose return to Sauraha, Chitwan, hotel from
    Narayanghat (by driver and car); first to ATM machines in
    Narayanghat; Steve and Jose eat at Toro Toro Restaurant
    ("husband and husband" conversation)
  • Return to hotel; late, but hair saloon is open, introduce
    ourselves ("husband and husband"); local boys nearby visit
    with us some (at our resort) ("husband and husband")
Day
11
in
Nepal
Aug 27
Saturday

From
SAURAHA
to
NARAYANGHAT
to
SAURAHA
  • Steve and Jose go to Narayanghat; arrive in Narayanghat
    around 7:30; ride back of motorcycle to bus stand for
    Narayanghat and take local bus to Narayanghat; Steve to
    speak in local church (decides to speak of his brother as
    gay - not Steve and Jose as gay)
  • Steve and Jose breakfast with Indira and local
    activist and discuss Thursday's meeting in Kathmandu and
    what to speak in church
  • Steve speaks in church in parable form - tells that his
    brother is gay; translator from; translator from organization
    associated with BDS; local activist and Steve and Jose
    meet with pastor and his wife afterwards to follow-up
  • Pastor told congregation following Steve's message that
    gays must change
  • To local activist's home for lunch; to translator's office
    and organization; discuss together church service,
    pastor's response; download and print ex-gay paper
  • To local activist's office for celebration with LGBT
    people - holiday of wives remembering their husbands
  • Steve and Jose to Narayanghat center for bus to Sauraha,
    Chitwan; shooting in town, police, traffic stopped; walk to
    edge of town for bus to Sauraha, Chitwan; ride on top of
    bus, French speaking Nepali picks us up on motorcycle
  • To sunset view spot - people - Canadians, Spaniards; view
    sunset;
  • To diner at K.C. restaurant; return to hotel room
Day
12
in
Nepal
Aug 28
Sunday

SAURAHA,
CHITWAN
  • Steve and Jose spend the day at Sauraha, Chitwan
  • Steve up at 5:30 and goes for long walk
  • Jose up around 7:30
  • Steve and Jose figure out expenses and cash on hand
    (ATMs not working in Sauraha)
  • Breakfast at Hermitage; speak with locals; "husband and
    husband"
  • Steve and Jose walked to where elephants bath; tell locals
    about being "husband and husband" - at Tifan House
    Restaurant
  • Phone Raju and speak with him
  • Steve and Jose rent bikes and go for drinks at Sapan
    Resort (where Steve had walked to earlier - nice view of
    mountains)
  • Steve and Jose bike to end of road - river, water buffalo;
    Jose falls off bike; later, chain comes off of bike;
  • Steve and Jose bike to area restaurant/hotel for lunch; talk
    with four guys there about "husband and husband" -
    one of which said it was good we were open, people are
    afraid to be open in Nepal, glad that we are free to be open;
    first time to see it, but knows from the news
  • Heavy rain; lets up; to hotel; more rain; Steve napes, Jose
    hands at room;
  • Steve and Jose bike to sunset point (cloudy); bike to K.C.
    Restaurant for dinner; to Internet - but can't photo copy due
    to power outage (scheduled)
  • Back at hotel, Steve sleeps, Jose parties, owner of hotel
    gets Steve from his room; all party, dance with tourists
    from China; up until 2:00AM ("husband and husband")  
    Young Nepali tour guide: "it makes me happy that you
    are frank, that you tell us at the begining that you are
    husband and husband, I like your openness"
Day
13
in
Nepal
Aug 29
Monday

From
SAURAHA
to
POKHARA
  • Steve and Jose up at 6:30; Steve downloads pictures; Jose
    packs; Steve writes in log; Jose and Steve go over costs
    and cash on hand; Jose checks out; breakfast at hotel
  • Hotel staff member requests LGBT information and
    gives email address
  • Just after 9:00 taxi to Sauraha bus stand, board "tour" bus
    (bus that takes "only" tourists -- and some locals within
    short distances) to Pokhara
  • Jose visits with four Spaniards and a Nepali during trip;
    at lunch stop Steve and Jose visit with a young couple
    from England who just complete two years working HIV-
    AIDS in Vietnam
  • Arrive in Pokhara around 3:00PM and immediately go to
    Hotel Grand Holiday (as recommended by our French-
    speaking Nepali contact in Sauraha; hotel taxi waiting for us)
  • Check into room facing lake side; went walking and ate
    pizza (with cocktails) at restaurant just past soccer field; (we
    note how exceptionally clean the streets are here unlike
    Kathmandu where dirt is everywhere in the air, but just this
    section of Pokhara for tourists called Lakeside); return to
    hotel; swim in pool at Temple Tree hotel next door - small
    but resort like - from 7:15-8:00PM; return to hotel; Steve on
    Internet in room; some email; checked out news on Internet
    on hurricane Irene in New York City; retire to bed
Day
14
in
Nepal
Aug 30
Tuesday

POKHARA
  • Breakfast at hotel (included), early; while at breakfast meet
    a small group of people from Malaysia; talk at length
    about gay-related questions, they've read about OYoung;
    tell them about "gay church," etc.;
  • Move our room from lade side of hotel to peak side - to a
    corner room with windows on both outside walls, and a
    balcony; peaks are visible only during early morning hours;
  • Jose contacts Raju Thakali Fupu of Naulo Bihani (New
    Morning) - the contact person Indira gave us
  • Raju comes to our hotel room (on his scooter)
    around 10:30AM
  • Steve and Jose tell Raju that they want to meet
    pastors and Christian leaders and give them a copy
    of the "ex-gay" paper in Nepali (which paper they
    show Raju a copy)
  • Raju is able to spend the day with us taking us around
  • Jose and Raju do a Google search of churches in the
    Pokhara area while Steve goes and photo copies the
    "ex-gay" paper (in Nepali) and rents a scooter
  • Jose rides on the back of Raju's scooter, Steve
    follows
  • To photo copy to pick up copies (introduce
    "husband and husband")
  • To the director and staff worker of a major
    Christian organization - meet at length, give
    paper, generally sympathetic (first time to meet
    a gay Christian)
  • To the director of a second major Christian
    organization (as well as leader within his
    church - a major church); listens to story with
    an open attitude, receives paper, (first time to
    meet a gay Christian)
  • To lunch - phone a pastor who is too busy to
    meet but agrees to receive the paper via
    email and gives us email address
  • To the Catholic church and speak with the
    Father who receives the paper (and asks if
    there is a copy in English)
  • Phone another pastor who agrees to meet
    Steve and Jose later at their hotel
  • To the offices of Raju - tour facilities and meet
    about four staff people
  • Steve and Jose return on scooter to their hotel at
    Lake Side and meet the pastor who agreed to meet
    there
  • Steve and Jose take the pastor to Temple Tree Hotel;
    order soft drinks and talk; pastor says he had a
    professor in seminary who taught that LGBT people
    should be accepted as they are; was interested in
    our mission
  • Steve and Jose end the day on the scooter going to
    the far end of Lake Side; enjoy the view along the
    lake; meet three Muslim young men from Bangladesh
    ("husband and husband") and take pictures together
  • Return scooter by 7:00PM; go to a Chinese
    restaurant for dinner; retire early; very tired
15
Aug 31
Wednesday

POKHARA
  • Steve and Jose take the full day OFF (and only about three
    times mention to anyone that they are "husband and
    husband") - A FANTASTIC DAY:  Getting a boat (skipping
    breakfast at the hotel and Jose getting a coffee on the way)
    at 7:00AM (canoe with a flat bottom); we spend the whole
    day on the lake and return at 6:00PM
  • Early part of day - take pictures of the Himalayans;
    hike to an overview (mountains become overcast late
    morning); canoe to a waterfall - hike to it and refresh
    ourselves (nude) under the falls; to end of lake -
    cross over to north side of lake (which gets all the
    sun constantly), arrive at Sams Restaurant just
    before noon; eat and rest until just after 3:00PM;
    return to south side of lake and swim; return boat
    rental via the temple site island (where we docked
    and viewed a bit)
  • Returning from boat rental, Steve and Jose have dinner at
    Lake View Resort with live traditional Nepali music and
    dress; spend the evening relaxing; return to hotel and retire
    by 11:00PM
Day
16
in
Nepal
Sept 1
Thursday

From
POKHARA
to
KATHMANDU
to
International
Airport and
departure to USA
via
DOHA, QATAR
  • Steve up at 5:00AM and Jose up at 5:30AM; Steve
    downloads two days of pictures and writes in log for
    Monday; Steve and Jose enjoy morning view of Annapurna
    and Fishtail from room (while Steve logs) and sunrise from
    rooftop
  • Jose introduces Other Sheep to two male tourists from
    Manila who are staying in the room across the hall
  • Steve and Jose have breakfast in their room (and take in
    the view as the peaks are becoming more and more visible
  • Taxi to airport around 8:30AM; board plane for Kathmandu
    around 10:00AM (about a 30 mins late departure); arrive in
    Kathmandu around 10:30AM and taxi to restaurant in Tuku
    for 11:30AM meeting with pastors
  • 11:30 luncheon with Kathmandu area pastors and lay
    leaders
  • Four pastors attend, all from different churches
  • One lay leader attends with one of the pastors
  • Three gay Christians are present (two from
    Kathmandu, one from another major town who bused
    in the day before); all three tell their story to the
    pastors
  • Other attendees:  Umesh P. of Blue Diamond (a
    Buddhist) and a sympathetic news reporter
  • Pastors ask questions; one pastor introduces the
    ides of a future full-day workshop
  • Indira not able to attend - in a Pokhara hospital being
    treated for a viral infection (she texts Jose early in the
    day; Jose and her text at end of day for updates on
    meeting and her medical progress)
  • Jose goes to ATM for cash while Steve waits at restaurant
  • Steve and Jose and Umesh P. go to International Hostel in
    Thamel where luggage is in storage
  • Steve repacks all the suitcases while Umesh watches
    and rests; Jose takes care of final payments; goes to
    Internet and does search on lodging, lounge at Doha
    airport
  • About 5:30PM Steve and Jose go to Kathmandu
    International airport; eat at Thai restaurant there; flight
    takes off ahead of schedule - plane pulls away from
    boarding area shortly after 8:00PM
  • Arrive in Doha four and 1/2 hours later - still Sept. 1 (Doha
    time; but just after midnight for Nepali time)
  • Through security; check out lounge in airport; Steve leaves
    attaché at security area; returns and finds it
  • Around midnight, Jose and Steve pay to enter lounge area
    where they stay until 6:00AM
Day 1
in
NYC
Sept 2
Friday

From
DOHA, QATAR
to
NEW YORK CITY
  • Steve and Jose snack in lounge; Steve starts on log but
    falls a sleep; Steve wakes around 3:00AM, does Thursday
    log and Tuesday log (using notes from report sent Indira on
    Tuesday's meetings with pastors and leaders)
  • Jose sleeps as well and then writes in the journal his
    impressions of their time in Nepal
  • Steve and Jose board plane to USA around 7:30; plane's
    departure is delayed for one hour; Steve and Jose arrive in
    NYC at 4:00PM and arrive in their home, by taxi, between 5:
    30 and 6:00PM
Visits to this web page since August 21, 2011:
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This web page (log entries) was completed in the (pay) lounge of
the Doha International airport on September 2, 2011

Photos and minor changes and additions were made on
September 5, 2011
This web page was created over a period of time, entries being
entered into the log almost daily.
This web page was first published on August 21, 2011, from
Kathmandu HI Thamel Hostel, Rom 204,
Chibhal,Thamel, Kathmandu, Nepal.
on the second day of the two-day holiday of
Krishna Janmashtami,
Photo at left:
Jose with Umesh P. of Blue
Diamond Society
August 18, 2011
Thamel, Kathmandu
Photo at left:  
Steve and Jose from a roof top
restaurant at
Hanuman Dhoka Durbar Square
Kathmandu
August 20, 2011
Jose Ortiz (far right)
at Hanuman Dhoka Durbar Square
KathmanduAugust 18, 2011
In the above photo:  After introducing himself and Steve as
"husband and husband," Jose Ortiz responds to comments
from the general public at Hanuman Dhoka Durbar Square.
Photos at left and below:
Umesh (at left) walking
with Jose to a family
birthday party where
(below) he dresses in
drag and performs
August 21, 2011
Kathmandu
At left:  Steve prints out first
printing (with the help of
Internet cafe owner) of the
Nepali translation of the
"ex-gay" paper
August 20, 2011
Thamel, Kathmandu
At right:  The table
where Steve and Jose,
by phone, were told the
translation is excellent;
Below: The restaurant.
August 21, 2011
Meeting
with
Blue
Diamond
Society,
August 23, 2011
Kathmandu
Meeting
with
Blue
Diamond
Society,
August 23, 2011
Kathmandu
Travel by bus
from Kathmandu
to Chitwan,
August 25, 2011
Photo at Left:
Steve and Jose
celebrate their
3rd wedding
anniversay with
a bear and fries
on the balcony of
their Chitwan
hotel,
August 25, 2011
Sauraha,
Chitwan, Nepal
Photos at left and
below:
Jose (at left) is texting
our contact person
regarding afternoon
events. Steve and
Jose (below) at an
activist event.
August 26, 2011
Chitwan (at left) and
Narayanghat (below)
At left:  Steve and Jose
ride from Sauraha to the
bus stand for
Narayanghat; in
Narayanghat Steve will
speak at a church service.
August 27, 2011
At left:
Following the
church meeting,
Steve and Jose
have a small
lunch in the
home of a
Christian activist,
August 27, 2011
Narayanghat
At left:
A huge pot of rice,
part of the holiday
celebration and
party at an LGBT
activist center,
August 27, 2011
Narayanghat
Below:
A motorcycle is burnt in
demonstration of anger
over a shooting and
killing in Narayanghat,
August 27, 2011
At left:
Steve and Jose
return to
Sauraha from
Narayanghat
on the roof of a
public bus,
August 27,2011

Steve & Jose's Other Sheep
Asia 2011 Ministry
with
India, Singapore and Nepal

Table of Index
Back at Sauraha, Steve
and Jose enjoy the sunset
August 27, 2011
At left and below:
Enjoying the day at
Sauraha, Chitwan, Nepal.
Watching the elephants
bathe.
August 28, 2011
At left and below:
Some of the people with
whom, throughout the day,
we introduced ourselves
as "husband and
husbands."
August 28, 2011
Sauraha, Chitwan
Raju Thakali Fupu of
Naulo Bihani with
Steve (
top photo) and
with Jose on bike
(
middle and bottom
photo
)
August 30, 2011,
Pokhara, Nepal
Photos above, at
left and below
left:

A full, wonderful,
beautiful day off in
Pokhara, Nepal.

Our last full day in
Nepal.

August 31, 2011
Photos above
and at left:

A full, wonderful,
beautiful day off in
Pokhara, Nepal.

Our last full day in
Nepal.

August 31, 2011

India (Index Page)
July 2 - August 12, 2011

Daily Logs:

Major Events:
  • Young Lay Leaders Conference
  • Day 2 - Jose presents
    psychological dynamics of
    church bias towards
    sexual minorities
  • Day 3 - Future projects
    considered

Narratives:

Singapore (Index Page)
August 13 -16, 2011

Daily Log:

Major Events:
  • Steve & Jose present "Is There
    Such a Thing as 'Ex-gay'?"
  • Steve & Jose present a
    Powerpoint on their India 2011
    ministry

Narrative:

Analysis:

Interview:

Rev. Oyoung:

Nepal (Index Page)
August 17 - September 1, 2011

Daily Logs:

Major Events:
  • "Putting a Face on
    Homosexuality" - Meeting with
    area pastors

Narratives:

Nepal Evaluation Report:

Recources:
Above two photos:
The luncheon for Chrstian leaders to
meet and speak with gay Nepali
Christians,
September 1, 2011
Tuku, Kathmandu
________________________________
Photo below:
A chance meeting up with Umesh P. in
the streets of Kathmandu immediately
after a very difficult meeting with local
Christians.
August 24, 2011
Kathmandu
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Photos at left
and below:
View of Fishtail
Mountain from the
window of our
hotel room.
September 1,
2011
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